Add a few thrills. There is no need for faking it. While having passionate sex; and not hum drum "love making" because this maneuver will be way out of place; it's best to do this with girl on top as it makes logistics easier. How to break the stalemate? Let your fingers do the walking and your tongue do the talking: Research shows that new and adventurous activities may stimulate the brain to produce dopamine, a neurotransmitter that plays a key role in sexual desire. With that said, here are five things that are super important to keep in mind when you go downtown: Think about those moments in your life when you feel completely in tune with your body. And if that feels less-than-right after all, you gotta clean up afterwards and put your couch to rights and stuff , simply take it to the bed in the guest room instead of the master bedroom. Is that the spot? The best part is that it usually takes about 5 second before the girl becomes so overwhelmed with excitement and tension that she passionately will grab me and kiss me, allowing us to resume the activities with the passion amplified. If you want to wait before sex, you can wait. Lastly, most men don't have the balls to pull a move like this because they "don't want to be even slightly rough with their delicate flower. By using your breath, you can let her "feel you" without physically touching her, as your warmth from your breath makes a soothing sound and the movement of your head moves the warmth to various parts of her body. Being picky about sexual partners is not a bad thing. I will then firmly, but gently remember, control is everything squeeze to lightly choke her while I pull her face about an inch from mine and I stare intensely into her eyes, much like many villains do in movies where' they are choking out some poor soul. That's because when you tell yourself you can't have something, you want it even more.