I met a 51 year old woman and we fell in love almost immediately. Hopefully through their partnership, Christopher Ryan opened Savage's eyes to the wide range of other explanations. Many of the men expressed that through their wife's open sexuality, the couple was actively and consciously rejecting social pressures to suppress female sexuality, assert monogamy and patriarchal power. Thus, it may be adaptive for men to be aroused by this situation because it will increase the odds that they will impregnate their partner instead of someone else. I am still sexually active and quite fit. I saw many men who reported that their wives were highly sexual beings, with a greater sexual capacity, and it simply turned the husbands on and pleased them to be able to see their wives sexually satisfied, at a degree that a single husband couldn't match. I did see a number of men who reported that due to physical complaints, they weren't able to be as vigorous in bed as they and their wives would like. The one thing he did want was to fulfill his fantasy of watching me have sex with another man. A friend, and a wife interviewed in my first book, told me that when she was working as a manager at a brothel, one of the women always called her husband on her cellphone, before bringing a man back to her room for a "party. If he hits you or event threatens to hit you you need to go to the police and get an order of protection, better to be cautious than be a victim of a serious beating or worse. This is something you really need to think about. Leopold posted ads in German newspapers of the day, looking for "energetic young men" to befriend and pleasure his wife.