The ghost is free to do whatever he or she likes and touch or tease the others howeverhe or she wants--completely blameless. This in turn can keep the submissive constantly thinking about and constantly craving sexual stimulation. One day, a person out of this dark past shows up on the submissive's doorstep, with photographs and videotape in hand, threatening to expose the submissive's secret to his or her spouse. They seldom even have to break in, because these women are the scatterbrained type who leave their front doors unlocked. Never before has there been such a large collection of ball-gags, suspensions, restraints and many other facets of BDSM all on the same channel. Trying to understand why they liked these things that were strange and deviant to regular folks, realizing they needed to keep certain desires to themselves. A person taking on the dominant role may feel inadequate at times, fear being disrespected, or simply want to be admired. Adding realism to scenarios Many scenarios include the submissive being taken by "force". A few quick ideas to get you started: When she's ready, she removes the blindfold, and proceeds to tease her prisoner unmercifully with her body. I do think that is pretty rare in western culture now though — given the massive publicity and exposure that BDSM has received in recent times. Sensory Deprivation Tactile senses are enhanced when other senses are taken away. This goes just as much for the dominant, power-wielding person as it does for the submissive. Clamp the clothespin on your partner's nipple or any other suitable place! Obviously, you go over to her place at 8, wearing a burglar costume: Naughty boarding school student A variant on the classic "naughty Catholic schoolgirl," this fantasy scenario features a boarding school student who is caught by the headmistress doing something bad--masturbating, reading a dirty magazine, or that sort of thing. Feelings of unbridled passion, beautiful sensations, sensual flights to distant spiritual lands… and then, unfortunately, there is the flip side when it stops or goes badly.