We need to move away from a binary mode of thinking and acknowledge that whatever people do in their bedrooms is their business, as long as there's explicit consent involved," said Reynolds. Women, who are not traditionally taught to eroticize guy-on-guy action due to its implications of weakness and femininity, are taught to automatically link male-on-male intercourse to homosexuality and an inability for the woman involved to satisfy her partner without the introduction of purchased products. Some of the most common pornographic fantasies, like female nurses and the mommy-daughter duos, fetishize care-taking explicitly. Which isn't completely wrong, but it is also entirely natural for people to find pleasure from contact in an erogenous area, regardless of societal stigmas involved. She also found that these NSA encounters often involve glory holes or blindfolds to keep the acts anonymous. And you seek out whatever you can find I guess. He still enjoys sex with men, He still identifies as straight. Located just inside the anus, it is easy to infer why a man would enjoy anal sex, or at the very least, would enjoy contact in that area. Reynolds is a doctoral candidate at the University of Minnesota who researches online media and sexuality. Another thing that intrigues me is the whole dick on dick thing. When we first began talking he said most people would consider him bisexual; however, he has no desire to be in a relationship with another man. For the most part it is to connect with a community of people who are empathetic and understanding of each other. Gayness, queerness, and other LGBTQ identities are representative of complex desires such as long-term partner preference, cultural belonging, and political orientation.