Our best sex position is man on top. Also, don't forget that sex positions with the woman on top can be much better for both partners. For example, look at the first picture below in which you can see that the woman has raised her knees and braced her feet against the bed. If the man's got a tendency towards premature ejaculation, then taking a break can also be helpful in re-establishing control and slowing down his progress towards orgasm. If she needs clitoral stimulation to come, and she wants to come, then she has to say so! A thick pillow under the woman's bottom raises her hips and makes her vulva available for cunnilingus; while if the couple wish to make love in the same position, he can kneel and thrust easily often easier if he has one leg out behind him and is kneeling on one knee only. That's going to give her more opportunity to exert leverage as her man enters and thrusts, so she can move more freely, and she can express her sexual feelings more easily in the way she moves. Making deep thrusts will make you come quickly, anyway, so even if your girl wants to feel you thrusting you may find that sex doesn't last very long! Vaseline, which is often recommended for this purpose, does not become rancid, but it is not soluble in water, and is therefore not easily washed off. As always with sex positions, care is needed to ensure you are having safe lovemaking - if you don't know your partner well, and you don't trust him or her, then ensure that what looks like a yeast infection isn't really some more serious sexually transmitted disease. This applies to many contraceptive techniques; it is important that their application should be done as unobtrusively and naturally as possible. In some posts the women are clearly identifiable, while in others their faces have been obscured. When she tells me she would like me to raise myself, it takes the pleasure down a little for me, because I find I have to focus on keeping myself up on my arms, and this is a bit of a strain.