Lace has a naturally seamless quality to it, especially if the fit is perfect. It also awakened me as she forced me into a black lace balcony bra and matching panty set. Stop living in denial — live in a bra that fits you! You can read all about Charli and even find a fabulous review of our Sculptresse range over on her blog! Also, while underwire can be uncomfortable for some, they are often essential or suggested for offering the support necessary. Consider panties with a thicker strap along the hips for a seamless look. Then a friend took me to a lingerie shop, that shall remain nameless, to get fitted — standing topless in a red velvet clad changing room with a middle aged woman tutting loudly at my badly fitted sports bra shamed me. It just takes knowing what your options are and what key features to keep in mind while shopping for lingerie — and only go to places that can properly fit your glorious curves! With F cup boobs by the time I was 14, I lived for years in sports bras and soft cup beige monstrosities with an excess of material that was more suited to my great grandmother than a hyperactive teenager. But you CAN find many full support bras that are wire-free, like the ones by Royce Lingerie, which are available up to a K cup. A lacy panty will sit along your shape, and of course, they come in so many cute cuts. This is what lingerie means to me and I hope others can feel the same! I walked out of the shop with my head held high and my chest thrust forward. Unfortunately, it has often been one sided! I honestly believe that by putting on that first set of fantastically sensual and sexy underwear, I started to believe that I was sexy and sensual, if not conventional. Beautiful bras in my size are becoming more adventurous, more fun and playful, and more sensual. Most bra stores allow you to get measured with their professional staff, but we also have lots of posts by our Bra Doctor explaining the fitting process and how important it is to make sure your bras fit.