Now, a person who wants something a potential or current sexual partner doesn't can certainly make a decision to choose a different partner who does want what they do instead of staying with or a partner who doesn't. Mild discomfort that is not severe is usually nothing to be overly concerned about. If the conviction is in the Circuit Court, the offender would be liable to be sentenced to life imprisonment or such other term as the court considers appropriate but not less than 15 years. Too, not everyone with a vagina is comfortable with gender roles often ascribed to people with vaginas, including when it comes to sex. It is important to note that consent will not exist in circumstances where there is evidence of physical assault, threats, fear of physical assault to the victim or to a third party or when the 'consent' is obtained by false and fraudulent representations as to the nature of the act or identity of the offender. If he does something that feels really good, tell him. You could also try masturbation to see what gets you to orgasm. Sometimes it may be a fantasy you share, but it's not one you've made unless the person who wrote it or made it was you. When we're trying to figure out what our orientation is or what kinds of sex we want to have, while our fantasies or someone else's can give us some cues, that's about it. Staying safe Although people are not likely to sustain an injury when experimenting with cervical stimulation, it is still crucial to stop if it hurts and avoid painful movements. It is also still possible to contract a sexually transmitted infection with this type of sexual activity. Do you feel uncomfortable with the idea of sex because of a conservative upbringing? For instance, some people who were raised with strong messages about how their genitals or sex are sinful or evil or gross or off-limits experience sexual aversion as a result either on the whole, or just around certain activities. Should these remain unbroken they constitute a natural barrier to the penetration of most pathogenic and other forms of germ-life into the parts beneath.